he/she would require you to stop doing something that you really like (keep cats, go to bars without him/her, reading slash etc.)
You know, I'll never understand how some people fall into this. I mean, can they really change their lives so completely because someone demands it and be happy about it? Shouldn't love be about loving who you really are and about respect?
I agree with sua_lay. I definitely wouldn't do that. That was one of the few things I said yes to. Or no. I mean I wouldn't accept that kind of demand at all from Mr. Right. That would instantly make him Mr. Wrong. But I am already married and hopefully for good. Me and my hubby have mostly common hobbies/interests/friends but also some of our own. And that's perfectly fine with both of us. I couldn't think of it any other way.
Actually I didn't believe in that love conquers all-thing so much as I do now. I never believed that I'd find a man who would have exactly the right attitude (I even asked my shrink what's the wisest thing to do for a hubby in a case like me) for a wife who has depression, is bulimic and sometimes even cuts herself. But I did. My hubby's perfect. ; ) Even though he could clean up the house more often. ; P
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Date: 2007-04-19 05:28 pm (UTC)You know, I'll never understand how some people fall into this. I mean, can they really change their lives so completely because someone demands it and be happy about it? Shouldn't love be about loving who you really are and about respect?
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Date: 2007-04-19 05:43 pm (UTC)That was one of the few things I said yes to. Or no. I mean I wouldn't accept that kind of demand at all from Mr. Right. That would instantly make him Mr. Wrong.
But I am already married and hopefully for good. Me and my hubby have mostly common hobbies/interests/friends but also some of our own. And that's perfectly fine with both of us. I couldn't think of it any other way.
Actually I didn't believe in that love conquers all-thing so much as I do now. I never believed that I'd find a man who would have exactly the right attitude (I even asked my shrink what's the wisest thing to do for a hubby in a case like me) for a wife who has depression, is bulimic and sometimes even cuts herself. But I did. My hubby's perfect. ; ) Even though he could clean up the house more often. ; P